I have the worst luck!

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by eighth_circle, Aug 22, 2006.

  1. eighth_circle

    eighth_circle Member

    WHY IS IT THAT, WHEN I TRY TO HELP SOMEONE, THEY ARE ALREADY HELPED EVEN THOUGH I TRY TO HELP THEM?

    Heres the story. This afternoon, my friend had an issue with a certain thing. I try to help and research and stuff and took like 1-2 hours just trying to solve the problem she was having with it. Then when I was about to call her to tell her that I solved it, HER FRIEND ALREADY HELPED HER. I try to act like it's all cool, but it's not. I have a tough luck even getting girls to talk to me!

    Why the hell does this always happen to me??? I wanted to take this chance to ask her out or something, but I guess I'll have to wait or something.

    damn...
     
  2. Forgotten_Man

    Forgotten_Man Well-Known Member

    Hmmm... bad luck... yup I know that.....but what can you do? The same thing mope I do mope around realizing that you wasted a portion of your life on a pointless endevor....

    That is why I have stopped trying to help people unless they ask because that way when someone else solves the problem before me the person feels bad for wasting my time. :biggrin:
     
  3. Wonderstuff

    Wonderstuff Staff Alumni

    Forgotten_Man's point of view may be cynical...but it makes sense! lol.
    I'm sorry that happened to you. I think it happens to all of us sometimes. Just write it off to experience and keep your eyes peeled for another opportunity to ask her out :)
    You will be able to help people. This time it just wasn't to be.
    Take care :)