I was married for 30 years and my marriage went sour. Now my ex wants me back again for what I don't know other than so that he can emotionally, mentally and physically abuse me. I have been controlled most of these 30 years that I've been with him. I have talked to my therapist and she agrees that it would not be a good idea for me to move back in with him. I mean come on he lives in my house and I live in a one bedroom apartment. We still own a business together, so their always has to be that constant contact which annoys the heck out of me. I just can't take anymore of his crap. Does anyone have any ideas as to how get away from him for good. I would like to have my 4bdrm house back but is it worth fighting over. I don't know I'm just being driven crazy by this whole mess.