So. This is probably the first time I've been able to get this out...so here goes. I've been confused. Well, more than confused. About my sexuality. I'm 20. I've never dated. No one has shown any interest. I've been really lonely over the years. Especially in High School. Dances and such never appealed to me. Now. Like many lonely women, I've had to turn to "other" forms of enjoyment. Porn mostly, just to be honest. Me and a friend, (a friend that doesn't know about my confusion) had a discussion about what makes a person gay. He was saying that if you ever found out that the person was looking at gay porn, you know that they are gay, because otherwise--why would they want to look at it? Right. Sounds like it makes sense. Except that when I look at porn, it doesn't matter what kind, I just am curious. I look at many kinds. Now, I'm sorry if this is too much information, but it's been causing me some problems. Here's the question. If I look at gay porn, (girl-on-girl) does that make me gay? -I don't see myself being with a women, but -In desperation, I can see myself experimenting. Damn. I'm sorry. Anyone willing to coach me through this?