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i just needed to ask someone..

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alright, so this isnt very suicide related but im really scared right now...
so tonight my girlfreind and i were kinda messing around...annnd we ended up almost having sex, i say almost becuase she said "put it in lets just see how it feels" soo i did...leave it in for a couple seconds and pull out because we didnt have a condom(btw this was the first time for us both)..
but right now im really scared if she got pregnant..what should we do?
tomorrow we are going to go to planned parenthood and try to get an emergency contraceptive..i am only 17 though and she is 16..will we be able to obtain an EC(morning after pill) since neither of us are 18 or over...
i tried to find out using google, but to no avail..i was hoping someone here could please help me even though this isnt suicide related..but if she does get pregnant im not sure what will happen...im scared..someone let me know what to do..


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I'm not sure but I assume that if she's over 16 then she should be able to get one and the sooner the better really for it to be effective. If you're unsure you could phone NHS direct (assuming you are in the UK).
Well, for starters, what you did was pretty stupid (although I'm sure you don't need me to tell you that). But at least you realise what could happen.
Firstly, yeah, I think you probably can if over 16, same as Shygirl said.
Secondly, try not to panic. I know this is really scary, but panicking won't solve anything, and even if she did end up pregnant you wouldn't know for a while yet. Worrying and worrying will only make it worse for you, ok?
Number one, go and see about the morning after pill. Then you just have to wait and see. Don't get ahead of yourself, it doesn't help.
I hope everything goes alright :hug: And will you let us know what happens? :)
Take care, and good luck.
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