So this guy that my band has played with asked me to do a split album. I don't like his stuff but he likes mine. He was so excited about it and had all this stuff planned and I kept going along with it even though I didn't want to do it because I can't say no to people. Today I said you know I appreciate it and everything but I don't want to do it. We talked and he said no hard feelings. It was like, wow! I cannot believe I just did that. Saying no is such an amazing thing to do. He wasn't angry or hurt. Wow! Just wow.