I knew this was coming...

Discussion in 'Help Me! I Need to Talk to Someone.' started by ThoseEmptyWalls, Jan 6, 2009.

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  1. ThoseEmptyWalls

    ThoseEmptyWalls Well-Known Member

    I know this probably wont seem like a big deal to anyone else but its a total crisis situation for me...Heres the deal: My moms 11 year old stepson went to kiddo prison and got released today. Why they let him out I dont know because they said he would end up back there within a month. Anyways. I rely on my mom to help me out with stuff (gas to doctors appointments and writing checks to pay the bills I have as I dont have a checking account). Well since her stepsons back home with her I want to restrict her access to my son. Basically I dont want my three year old son around her 11 year old stepson (I wont go into full detail but hes molested a little girl and can be very violent). My mom swears she watches them close and that her stepson would never hurt my son but I think shes in denial over the facts. I dont want my kid around that crap. The problem is that my mother can be very self centered and act very childish at times. I know when she calls wanting my son to visit next and I tell her no she will ask why. When I tell her why she will throw a fit. She will stop helping me with gas to appointments and she will refuse to write the checks to pay out my bills (yes I give her the money, she just puts it in her account and writes a check for me). That will be a big problem for me. With the situation Im in I have to keep therapy and doctor appointments - plus my son goes to frequent visits to a specialist. On my barely there income theres no way I can keep all those appointments without my moms help. I dont know what to do....
     
  2. ThoseEmptyWalls

    ThoseEmptyWalls Well-Known Member

    I forgot to mention that shes living in my house right now. Not the one I live in right now but the one Im suppose to move into later this year. Its in her name right now and Im afraid she wont sign the deed over when shes ready to leave and move into her house... This is messed up and Im so worried over it.
     
  3. gentlelady

    gentlelady Staff Alumni

    Your mom can still see your son but she needs to come to your house to do it. then you can make sure he is not being left alone with her stepson for any reason. Is there a reason you need her to keep the account for you? You can pay for gas with cash. She doesn't need to write a check for you if you use money orders. She should understand why you feel the way you do. It is her grandson that may be in danger. Is she really willing tho risk that?
     
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