but does anyone else who's spouse left feel like you'll never feel the physical love of another again? I guess i don't mean the sex act itself so much as just the kissing,caressing,feeling someone you love touch you. i know it sounds petty but that is what i miss the most i have been sexually incapable for a couple of years due to my MS and other medical conditions,but i miss feeling her touch me. for 20yrs her touch was all i knew,her touch made me feel like a man even though i couldn't have regular sex with her i did other things to try and compensate. now all i hear is how he has sex with her constantly and how she always thought i was pathetic even though for 18yrs i was a normal functioning man. i even went through the embarrassment of talking to a doctor about getting some procedure or medication so i could perform anything to save my marriage.