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I like guys

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by Darth Doomsday, Feb 4, 2007.

  1. Darth Doomsday

    Darth Doomsday New Member

    I like guys.... :sad:
  2. ImInLovexx

    ImInLovexx Guest

    y are u sad about liking guys?
  3. Darth Doomsday

    Darth Doomsday New Member

    It's not right.
  4. ImInLovexx

    ImInLovexx Guest

    whats not right? ...i dont understand. how is it not right?
  5. ybt

    ybt Guest

    i think he means he's gay or bi

    it's not wrong. but don't feel in a rush to come out to anybody...
  6. Fatman1966

    Fatman1966 Antiquitie's Friend

    Well it can be a very difficult thing to come to terms with.

    I know, at 40 its still an issue I am struggling with, it depends a lot on how you were brought up and what you were tought to believe in as a child.

    What I would say, is don't think this is going to be something you an put to one side and forget about, I've tried, it doesn't work.

    If you ever want to talk things over, drop me a PM.

    It doesnt have to be the end of the world

    It isn't a punishment
    It isn't an illness
    It isn't a choice

    When it comes to this subject, I've spent 20 years or so, thinking about it !!!!
  7. theleastofthese

    theleastofthese SF Friend Staff Alumni

    Please don't hate yourself over how you feel. If you like guys, you like guys - it isn't the end of the world, really. Accept yourself for who you really are. No one here is going to judge you for it.

    love and hugs,

  8. ybt

    ybt Guest

    i feel it is to some extent a choice, although whatever you choose isn't wrong.
  9. Cheesecake

    Cheesecake Well-Known Member

    So do I :wink:

    wanna talk about pm me or something, in this day and age its nothing to be ashamed of.
  10. LetItGo

    LetItGo Staff Alumni

    :( Sorry to hear your having problems with your sexuality, even in this day and age its still hard, and I still dont think society has fully embraced homesexuality or bisexuality to be honest. Lets hope that day comes soon. :hug:
  11. Fatman1966

    Fatman1966 Antiquitie's Friend

    That is so niave, I've been there, done that.

    It's not often I do this but........


    What "normal" person would put themselves through that kind of pain and suffering, if they coud simple decide not to be gay !!!!!!

    How do I know, because for the last 40 years, I have been completely single, I made that choice, not to be gay, I had female friends and relationships, yet at any given time I would have traded them all in for one cute guy, why ? because deep down emotionaly I felt very little for them and as much as I have tried to really love a woman, I just can't.