@Lovetolisten Guys are really judgmental. More so than women I think. I never in my life remember being told by a woman that I didn't look ok. They get the struggle.
If you're over 100 pounds you're considered fat.
If your lips, breasts or butt are small they tell you to get surgery. When you get surgery they say you are plastic.
If you wear no makeup guys complain. When you do they say it's "false advertising".
The only thing men are promoting is self esteem issues and negativity.
Personality does matter but guys don't even get past your physical appearance to get to know you. In my case anyway.
I wear makeup, dress up and color my hair to make me happy not some strange guy.
It's funny because the guys judging are considered 1 or 2's themselves. Not lookers. Not rich not successful.
In some cases no house or no car.
They should be judged for being low life assholes. It's not ok to reach out to some stranger and try to ruin their life.