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Empathy Only I lost a friend...

#1
I still feel very upset because I just lost a friend who said she didn’t want to talk to me anymore… I seriously feel as if everyone is leaving me behind and that no one really does care for me… I got so emotional about this, had a panic attack and I nearly had to dial a hotline. But I talked to my mom I feel a little better but I still feel upset…

How and why would she do this… we were like sisters… now I just feel lonely and on top of that, my grandma isn’t letting me have any friends and I just get family that torments me 24/7… literally me and my aunt argued again last night. and im scared im going to end up lonely and on the streets...

Just wanted to vent a little bit.. i know this may seem as if this is nothing to talk about but this really impacted me... i hope all of you understand... im sorry once again...
 

Lady Wolfshead

"Peace comes from within" - The Buddha
#2
*console
So sorry you lost a friend. I hope she may come around - maybe she is just going through something. But I find it's best to think about it as people growing apart. One of my favorite quotes is "the same wind that blows one door closed blows another open." I lost my best friend a few years ago (he died at age 36). After his death I met another person here on SF who was grieving as well and we became good friends. All best wishes to you.
 
#3
I'm just both depressed and concerned for her though. she kept telling me how she was suicidal and depressed and every day she feels like dying and now all of a sudden she is saying she doesn't want to talk to me... i swear to god if she dies im gonna end up in another hospital... because i can't take it...
 

Champagne

✯✯ Heart of an angel ✯✯
Staff Alumni
SF Supporter
#7
Hey, you have nothing to be sorry for, that's what SF is for, talking about how you feel.

I'm sorry you lost your friend hun, maybe she just needs a time-out from everyone to try and get help for her depression? I do hope she will be okay and that ye will reconnect and if not, I hope you will still be okay, I'm glad your mum was there for you. We are here for you too so talk as much as you need to. *hug
 
#9
I still feel very upset because I just lost a friend who said she didn’t want to talk to me anymore… I seriously feel as if everyone is leaving me behind and that no one really does care for me… I got so emotional about this, had a panic attack and I nearly had to dial a hotline. But I talked to my mom I feel a little better but I still feel upset…

How and why would she do this… we were like sisters… now I just feel lonely and on top of that, my grandma isn’t letting me have any friends and I just get family that torments me 24/7… literally me and my aunt argued again last night. and im scared im going to end up lonely and on the streets...

Just wanted to vent a little bit.. i know this may seem as if this is nothing to talk about but this really impacted me... i hope all of you understand... im sorry once again...
Look.... I feel so sorry about your friend... maybe she just doesn't want to hurt anyone and especally you. If you talk to her maybe everything will be a bit better! Lots of hugs!! *hug:)
 
#12
Its been months and she finally came back into my life... she told me she lied about a few things but we made up and i forgive her... im glad to have her back in my life... i missed her...
 

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