well i literally just broke up with my girlfriend, tomorrow would have been our one month anniversary, though technically i broke it off 5 mins before our anniversary. It started as a fairy tale involving love at first sight, i met her two weeks before school was over, and i instantly fell head over heels in love. I thought finally i had found somebody who i could have a meaningful relationship with, and who i truly cared about. But then maybe two weeks ago, out of the blue really i just stopped having feelings for her, and it tore me apart, how could i just stop loving, the love of my life? i still don't understand, we never had a fight, she got me sober and feeling ok. I should be happy? right? i don't know what went wrong, but i do know that now she is hurting badly... the one thing i hate to do to those i want to protect most is hurt them, and i hurt her a lot with out meaning to. On the other hand, some might suggest that is was better for me to break it off now, it is just not right to lead somebody on when you don't really love them, no? perhaps she will be thankful i didnt drag it out later, assuming she will speak to me again. I'm really confused in this whole thing, did i do the right thing? why did i stop loving her? i still somewhat hold hope inside i will go back to how i felt before, but i dont know. I guess this is sort of turning into a rant so i best stop....i would appreciate if anybody wishes to weigh in on this situation or give an opinion...thanks