I miss my dad...

Discussion in 'Grief and Bereavement' started by Maylin, May 19, 2009.

  1. Maylin

    Maylin Well-Known Member

    He died like 12 years ago when I was 10, I did not really understand it all and I just bottled it up inside, I was not even sad when he died, just shocked. I quess that was around the time I stopped showing any sadness around people.

    I wish he could be here helping me through all these years, he was the best...
    I wish he could be here helping my mother...
     
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  2. Shadowlands

    Shadowlands Official SF Hugger Staff Alumni

    Sorry that your dad is dead. :hug:
     
  3. KJAB

    KJAB Senior Member & Antiquities Friend

    (No, MY dad was the best) Sorry you lost your dad, at so young an age... There's nothing I can say except maybe I understand the feeling too... do you ever talk to people about how fab your dad was?
     
  4. Maylin

    Maylin Well-Known Member

    Thanks :)

    No, even just thinking about him makes me choked up, I would end up crying if I talked about him! Sure it might be good to "let it all out", but I have made a habit of not following my own advice. :rolleyes:
     
  5. sudut

    sudut Well-Known Member

    I am sorry your dad left you.
     
  6. BlondRedHead

    BlondRedHead Well-Known Member

    There are no words to describe that kind of loss. Today marks 14 years ago I lost my grandpa, he was like my dad. Only thing I can say for something like this that is universally true... it sucks.
     
  7. wozudichter

    wozudichter Member

    I'm sorry for your loss. I don't know what else to say, but it's nice that this forum is here, and the people are so supportive. For me, I just cry, listen to aimee mann. I don't know how to find the right balance of remembering and forgetting. I hope the best for you.
     
  8. Maylin

    Maylin Well-Known Member

    Thanks everyone :hugtackles:, yeah this is a fine forum indeed.