I am a 62 year old grandmother. I have one son and one grandson, who just turned 16. This may not seem like a crisis to some, but I am having an extremely difficult time coping with this. My grandson has come to our house for every other weekend since he was 10 years old. He is now a sophomore in high school and I have noticed lately that he is making excuses to not come. He has school band commitments, sick, someone's birthday party, etc. We had to go to court just to be able to see him on the weekends and up until now, he has always wanted to come. In fact, his mother would punish him by not allowing him to come see us and his father when he misbehaved because this was what he wanted more than anything. Now, suddenly, he is involved with his friends, his drums, and doesn't have time for us. He has also lost about 75 lbs over the past year. His mother has had him to the dr, but said that he just needs to eat better. He is 6' tall and weighs 135. He is literally skin and bones. I'm worried about him not eating and I am just heartsick that he no longer wants to see us. We have made him our entire life, given him anything he wanted and surrounded him with love and now we are just out. I need other grandparent's and even teenager's imput. What did I do wrong and how can I fix it so I can see my grandson again? HELP ME. Thank you.