I need help. My grandparents are HARD-CORE Christians. I mean like, you're-not-perfect-you're-going-to-hell. I need to tell them 2 things. 1) I am a Nihilist. Not a Christian.(Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against Christians..) Nihilism is were you don't believe in anything, though, I consider my self to also be "Satanic". I mean, I've done so much stuff. I listen to the worst music. (fuck rap, metal all the way) And I just want to break it to the nicely. 2) I also want to "come out" to them. Again, with them being hard-core Christians, this is going to be a challenge. I want to tell them that I am gay.. but honestly they'd kill me, bring me back to life, lecture me till I die, reincarnate me again then hack me to bits. I really need to tell them, because my girlfriend might be coming over soon.. and well... I want them to know. I don't know, should I tell them both at the same time, or that I am a Nihilist first or my sexuality first.. I'm so confused! Please help me. I need it... advice, stories. ANYTHING! I need it.