I'm very confused about my experience, I feel alone and need some support. I've kept this to myself for a year and I can't anymore.
Last year, I had met this guy, lets call him bob. I met bob through a mutual friend. I had been meeting up with bob for a couple of weeks. We had kissed and I had stayed around his house a couple of times, I had slept in his bed but nothing sexual had happened. We had been out drinking with a group of friends. Bob, his friend and I had gone back to his house to carry on drinking after everyone else had gone home. I had more drinks while bob and his friend took drugs.
I was fairly drunk by this time. Bob had suggested I go and lay down upstairs. I was secretly relived because I was getting tired of socialising and was sleepy.
I went upstairs and fell asleep on his bed. I woke up an hour or so later, as he was walking into the room. I needed something to eat so I ate it something then we got into bed to sleep.
He was laying next to me and started pulling down my knickers. I pulled them back up and told him to stop. This happened again maybe 2 or 3 times. He ignored my protests, until I gave up protesting. He was relentless. He touched me and then penetrated me without a condom.
I need someone to tell me that I'm not over reacting or over sensitive and what happened here was wrong? What was this… was it rape or coercion?
Last year, I had met this guy, lets call him bob. I met bob through a mutual friend. I had been meeting up with bob for a couple of weeks. We had kissed and I had stayed around his house a couple of times, I had slept in his bed but nothing sexual had happened. We had been out drinking with a group of friends. Bob, his friend and I had gone back to his house to carry on drinking after everyone else had gone home. I had more drinks while bob and his friend took drugs.
I was fairly drunk by this time. Bob had suggested I go and lay down upstairs. I was secretly relived because I was getting tired of socialising and was sleepy.
I went upstairs and fell asleep on his bed. I woke up an hour or so later, as he was walking into the room. I needed something to eat so I ate it something then we got into bed to sleep.
He was laying next to me and started pulling down my knickers. I pulled them back up and told him to stop. This happened again maybe 2 or 3 times. He ignored my protests, until I gave up protesting. He was relentless. He touched me and then penetrated me without a condom.
I need someone to tell me that I'm not over reacting or over sensitive and what happened here was wrong? What was this… was it rape or coercion?
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