i never thought...

Discussion in 'I Have a Question...' started by thedeafmusician, Jul 26, 2007.

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  1. thedeafmusician

    thedeafmusician Staff Alumni

    i'd live to see the day of my parent's 30th anniversary. I never thought that i would be alive to see it, and if I was, then I never thought that it would happen. I thought they'd split. and yet, here i am saying that its for real. is this even a good thing?? I mean, is it even possible to have a good marriage but not communicate?! :unsure:
  2. Erebos

    Erebos Well-Known Member

    Probably not.
  3. gentlelady

    gentlelady Staff Alumni

    I would say it is not really possible to have a good marriage without communication. i would term it more a marriage of convenience. Sometimes we get locked in to what is familiar and it feels safer to stay that way than to venture out into the unkown and risk our sense of safety and well being. i remember after my grandparents 50th anniversary. My Aunt and uncle were talking of splitting. My grandfather told my uncle he had lived for 30 years without love, my uncle could as well. That made me very sad to think of. In less than a year after that, both of my grandparents passed away. Now they lie buried next to each other for eternity.
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