I should say "hello"...

Discussion in 'Welcome' started by blue.period, Oct 28, 2011.

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  1. blue.period

    blue.period Active Member

    I joined a few days ago but I've been too nervous to post really.

    I'm a very shy and quiet person generally and when I'm also new anywhere I find it very difficult.

    I've been dealing with depression, anxiety and self harm for half my life and so many times things get on top of me. Feelings like these are hard to discuss with friends or family and you are often seen as selfish or attention seeking. I guess I just wanted a place I could come and talk about such things and be understood.

    It feels bad that I should keep it from my real life but I'm not sure what else to do.
  2. Speedy

    Speedy Staff Alumni

    Welcome! :biggrin:

    Pleasure to meet ya'! :shake:
  3. blue.period

    blue.period Active Member


    Thank you for the welcome. :smile:
  4. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    Hi hun great place to come and talk to let out some sadness and to get some support hugs to you
  5. blue.period

    blue.period Active Member

    Thank you I was hoping it was. I'm glad I found this site.
  6. jimk

    jimk Staff Alumni

    hi blue.period.. welcome to Sf's.. hope you get to feeling safe on here.. we try our darndest to not judge or criticize.. you got a lot of company here with similar mental illnesses themselves.. hope to hear some more from you later,, take care, Jim
  7. blue.period

    blue.period Active Member


    and thank you for another nice welcome. I'm still just finding my feet I guess but I have a feeling I'll be ok here.
  8. ZombiePringle

    ZombiePringle Forum Buddy and Antiquities Friend

    Hiya, welcome to SF. :)
  9. Baldr

    Baldr Moderator Staff Member Safety & Support

    And I've kept things secret to my friends (and family, but they're the main cause for my problems) for pretty much my whole life to seem normal.
  10. blue.period

    blue.period Active Member

    Sorry for the late replies but...

    Thank you. :smile:

    It hard doing that. I have told my family sometimes but it never goes well. I have some friends also that I've tried to speak to but its hard for people to understand. That's why I thought I should keep it separate.
  11. Constantinos

    Constantinos Well-Known Member

    Hello and welcome to the forums, i'm here to help you whenever you need help.

    Feel free to send me a PM!
  12. blue.period

    blue.period Active Member

    Thank you for the nice welcome thats very kind of you.
  13. GamerrGrrl

    GamerrGrrl Member

    Welcome to SF. I hope you find some support. :)

  14. blue.period

    blue.period Active Member

    Thank you :smile: Are you new too? welcome. Sweet little duck avatar too.
  15. Lost_Daughter

    Lost_Daughter Well-Known Member

    Welcome! I am new to this site to but I already feel like its helping. Its nice to be able to shre your thoughts and feelings without being judged or ignored like people close to you often do. We are all here for a lot of the same reasons and getting honest open advice from people is really refreshing. Best wishes to you :)
  16. blue.period

    blue.period Active Member

    Hi! Welcome to you too. I'm glad its helping you. It is a relief to know that when I need to get really difficult things off my chest I will have a place to go and a place to talk about my darkest emotions. That can be so hard out there in the real world.
  17. Isabel

    Isabel Staff Alumni

    Welcome at SF Blue,

    I hope our little community will bring you a measure of comfort and understanding. wish you well :)
  18. blue.period

    blue.period Active Member

    Thank you. I really have had a lot of nice welcomes and that alone helps a lot. :smile:
  19. texaskitty

    texaskitty SF Friend and Antiquities Friend Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    Welcome blue

    safe :hug:

    It is good you are here. Good place to get to feeling better.
  20. blue.period

    blue.period Active Member

    Thank you. I think I've been a bit quiet around the help section but honestly just knowing this place is here if I need it is a big relief. I'm probably still a bit guilty of keeping things all bottled up though. :unsure:
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