A close friend of mine lately, has obviously been under a lot stress & drinking more than I would consider the odd drink. So obviously I'm worried about her as she tends to always have to strive for the highest things & will run herself into the ground. She's also been making jokes that kind of make me uneasy. I've asked her but she's the type of person to offer a sarcastic (unbelievable) response. Now first off I dont want to be the hypocrit and tell her what she should look at doing (ie talking to someone). However I'm not wanting to stand by & watch someone fall down the same ugly path I'm on. I'm afraid this may be sneaky but I was going to maybe just say something to our professor. Maybe just get them to say "hey I noticed you've looked stressed lately is everything ok?" or something. As close as we are her personality & my own issues may cause her to put up a wall with me. When we drink she's more open but by the next day it's like the convo never happened. Am I having an over-reaction to this or something? Any suggestions??