I'm terrible with boundaries. I've read the book and versions of it and emotional blackmail and all sorts of things about healthy boundaries but I hate negotiations, hate saying no, I'm a severe introvert and a pleaser and it's a loop I've been in for years. I've become passive aggressive and I'm reaching a point that I want to delete this cell phone and not give out any contact information. I have a company I helped start many years ago and they were bought by private equity. I've said. No no no to many things and they always come back. If they can't reach me it will be a combination of call, email, LinkedIn, WhatsApp and text to try and get my input. I have a full time job at a company where the work is hard,challenging and my career. I left this side company in 2012 and it was resurrected three years sgo. I refused to sign a new agreement with them but it won't go away.
I just want to withdraw for a while and be completely invisible.
I sometimes wonder like it's a wonderful Life what it would be like if I were gone. If I had never been born. Who would they run to with their questions and problems and inputs. That leads me to suicidal ideation and that's not good.
I just want to withdraw for a while and be completely invisible.
I sometimes wonder like it's a wonderful Life what it would be like if I were gone. If I had never been born. Who would they run to with their questions and problems and inputs. That leads me to suicidal ideation and that's not good.