I want to commit suicide,Help I got no time

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by Sasa, Dec 7, 2012.

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  1. Sasa

    Sasa Member

    I got Problem so I need help

    I suffer 8 years from OCD and that thing makes me a lot of problem,one of that problem is that I got 26 and I m virgin,you gonna laugh at me and think in yourself like "what a pathetic loser"but OK laugh at me you don t know how that is I also got no friends(not "Friends")I mean buddy s ,I train a lot but and try to focus my mind on Training,you probably think why you Virgin "Oh my God"blah blah,but I m not here to be laugh at I m here because I m except help.How would you fell when you can t brought Girl a home because of your OCD thoughts,I mean how would she look in me when I start to dress and take of my clothes over and over again or got through the door over and over again she would probably look scared,OCD make me a Virgin because when I got 18 and ready for life I was crushed by OCD,I want to commit suicide I visit psychiatrist I try to help myself but every time think about that thing that I m 26 and I m virgin I want commit suicide,I got no time so help me.How I need to know how to react I also take medicines. :crushed:
  2. WildCherry

    WildCherry Staff Member ADMIN

    Hi and welcome to the site. You won't be laughed at here. :hug:

    Have you told your doctor about the OCD? I'm not sure if it's something they're able to treat, but it would be worth a try. Therapy also might be helpful.
  3. Sasa

    Sasa Member

    Yes I visit psychiatrist in years,I tell I training I go to Jim I training martial arts, but I m virgin that makes me suicidal I feel so pathetic I drink medication and I m not from USA
  4. yep

    yep Well-Known Member

    Hi Sasa, some help is at hand here. As WildCherry said, this is a group to support each other not to laugh about each others problems.
    First, you do not want to commit suicide, what you want is to end the suffering.

    As we all share problems in our life, this a safe place where you can come and find people who will listen and will not judge you no matter what.
    I won't tell one been virgen at any age is bad or good or having obsession for things is easy to overcome. The only person who can know what is happening to you is yourself. Do bear in mind that you are not OCD and you are not only the person virgen at 26, who you are is much more than just something that is happening to you now and can change at any time.

    You are not alone count with us.
  5. Lonely83

    Lonely83 Active Member

    Hi Sasa, you can look on the bright side that you still have this precious gift (virgin) to give to your love one in the future, some girls regret they gave it to some bad guys or being used. You are not alone here. *HUG*
  6. Moat

    Moat Banned Member

    Being a virgin is nothing to get so worked up about and I honestly do not see why so many people put so much emphasis to lose it. Perhaps the media, perhaps everything shown in television and movies these days... Sit back and relax, you really are not missing out on anything 'grand' and when it happens it is that much more memorable. Although I suppose if you really want to do something about it, you can always use an escort service, though I do not recommend that path since you are potentially exposing yourself to all forms of nasty little STD's and other factors, no matter how well the women present/promote themselves.
  7. Sasa

    Sasa Member

    Thank you all people but I m not from USA is that mean that you not gonna help more?I know what society it is,I m not Gay I just can t get girlfriend because of OCD,imagine you meeting some person brought him home and then start to do something strange,my society look on OCD like some kind of craziness and I don t know what to do I need to hide my problems I only share my problems with my family,I feel if somebody know that I m virgin they can laugh at me and pick on me.26 and Virgin how now I gonna take some girl,my life is gone ,NO,What would I do.:sad:
  8. fallingawayfromME

    fallingawayfromME Well-Known Member

    First of all take deep breath okay? Its going to be ok. Secondly being 26 and a virgin isnt anything to be ashamed about. It just means what it means. It doesnt mean youre a loser, or a freak, or not worthy of love. There are people MUCH oldfer than you who are still virgins. Sex is not everything. Sure most of us want to be close to another but it will happen if you let it. Just keep at it. If a shooting guard stops shooting then he wont score. Its ok. Just know that your time will come if you keep at it ok? Hang in there.
  9. youRprecious!

    youRprecious! Antiquities Friend

    Honey, Hi and welcome :) Some people remain virgins their whole life long - it is nobody's business than their own. The truth is, we are not obliged to act according to what we think everyone else is doing - there is nothing shameful in putting other priorities ahead of this one. The right girl for you will be a girl who respects your choice - and you will know not to throw yourself away on anyone who cannot do that :) So, that is a bonus.

    And there are things that a learnable in overcoming OCD. The truth is that you are stronger than what you feel you have to do over and over again. When you take off your clothes, speak to yourself out loud and say after the first time: "Sasa, see, you have taken off your clothes and now nothing terrible will happen - you don't need to take them off again". Same with doors - say "Sasa, I have opened the door and gone through it - there is no need for me to do this again, once is enough" and to any compulsion to do something more than once, you say "Sasa, once IS enough" - because, the truth is hun, that it is enough. You can betray the lie that suggests it isn't. :)
  10. Count Floyd

    Count Floyd Well-Known Member

    Sasa, you're hung up on the virgin thing. Don't worry about it. You're still very young. I think you think there is an age you're supposed to be deflowered and if you're not it's all over. First off, millions of people have OCD. It doesn't mean you can't find someone. I also believe there are websites you can go to where there are other women with OCD looking for men, like a dating site. I'm not sure if "No longer lonely" covers that but that's one of those dating sites for people who have issues. You have lots of options. By the time you're 30, you're going to look back and laugh at everything because everything will be fine. Hang in there. Feel free to rant here some more.
  11. Sasa

    Sasa Member

    Thank you all people for support but really society is like that when I think about like "Man I m 26 and I m virgin people gonna make fun of me"I want comity suicide,I afraid they gonna see that I m Virgin even if I don t tell to nobody but all those stupid TV show,Musician that represent them selfs or some guys like Macho boys its make me aggressive and angry.
  12. fallingawayfromME

    fallingawayfromME Well-Known Member

  13. Count Floyd

    Count Floyd Well-Known Member

    Society doesn't know you're a virgin. You're only 26. Anything can happen. There are lots of people with the same problems you have out there. Your life could literally be completely different in a week. Hang in there. Look into your options.
  14. Sasa

    Sasa Member

    I try to look but I don t live in USA ,people here still think that epilepsy is a Devil thing and not medical problem,I mean is chaos :(,I love my country but society here is don t give fuck for young people
  15. Witty_Sarcasm

    Witty_Sarcasm Writer, Musician, Fun Lover, Magic Maker

    If people make fun of you for being a virgin, don't listen to them. I've been bullied for many things over the years, and it's best to tune those people out and not let them get to you. Don't let them have that power over your emotions.
  16. Count Floyd

    Count Floyd Well-Known Member

    What country do you live in, Sasa? I'll do some research for you too if I can.

    Also, what do you do for a job? Can you move? (just wondering if that is an option - not just for your condition but also sometimes moving to a new place is a fresh new start in everything in yoiur life)
  17. Sasa

    Sasa Member

    I m live Serbia,I can move ,I can work but there s no work here ,don t get me wrong but USA politics kill us they keeping us down,but I don t wanna go there
  18. Reno

    Reno New Member

    I would like to know what your brain tells you if you don't repeat your OCD actions? Like I said, I am 62 & been OCD my whole life. Really bad at times during my life. I get control of one thing & then it comes out with a different ritual. What do you think?
  19. pickwithaustin

    pickwithaustin Staff Alumni

    Happiness in life and success are not based on having sex. Furthermore, I don't know of any methods yet that exist to detect if people are virgins or not, so I'm unsure how anyone could be made fun of for it unless they broadcast the fact. If you are not married, I would expect for you to be a virgin. Finding a suitable person to have a lasting relationship often takes a long time. Be patient, you are actually young by today's standards and have a long time ahead. What are your other interests beyond the virgin related issue? Do you have hobbies, career goals, things like that?
  20. Sasa

    Sasa Member

    Yeah I write Songs,I train martial arts I already tell that
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