Aw, I'm glad I made you all happy. You made me feel better by helping me, and then you felt good because what you had said helped me
That is how helping people can help yourself, so I'm really glad that you felt happy.
Isn't it GREAT how that works?
That was a total mistake what I said about nobody, which I did try to explain but people didn't accept my apology. Like I said, I don't even remember writing the post, not because I forgot but because I was stressed and probably dissociated. But again, that was not accepted.
But it was an honest mistake. People often mistake for me a guy too, and I don't really care, lol. But yes, I should have somehow realised my error and stuff. Maybe I need to try and re-read more carefully. That stops the simple errors.
I still don't get why your apology wasn't accepted...if I couldn't forgive the little mistakes people make every day, I would be in a constant state of rage. :jason: But, what can you do? All you can do is make an honest apology...it's in their hands after that.
I'm just going to be honest here, I find it easier to look internally to try to find a reason to change as opposed to seeing a general reason like that.
I agree with you there. Reminds me of that silly joke where the Buddhist goes to the hot-dog vendor and says "Make me one with everything". When the vendor hands him his hot-dog the Buddhist says "Where's my change?" "Ah", the vendor said, "True change must come from within".
But seriously, the best and most permanent changes we make for ourselves truly do come within ourselves, and not from external prodding. Changes we make as a result of others tend to be short-lived in my experience. The best we can do here I guess is to hope that something we say might strike an internal chord with someone and give them something to think about.
