Apologies for the issue with a bizarre redirect on the site earlier today. There was a large server update and an error in an IP address had the traffic routing wrongly. No hacking or anything nefarious and nothing to worry about. Sorry for any stress/anxiety caused. Very best wishes - SF Admin
It sounds like he's in denial or at the least he's into minimization. This could largely be due to the fact that your his wife, admitting the reality of the situation on your problem just might be too anxiety provoking. It really sucks how lacking in understanding family can be.
You not having health insurance could possibly be part of the problem as well.