I wish my husband believed me.

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by bookmark, Jun 24, 2011.

  1. bookmark

    bookmark Member

    He thinks everything will be ok, nothing will happen. I don't want him saying after the fact that he didn't know. Just pretending everything is ok. what the hell is that? It makes me mad.
  2. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    You need to go to hospital okay get some help for you so you do not leave your husband with such pain He does not want to believe it okay he does not want to lose you hugs.
  3. bookmark

    bookmark Member

    no insurance
  4. LightInTheDarkestNight

    LightInTheDarkestNight Well-Known Member

    It sounds like he's in denial or at the least he's into minimization. This could largely be due to the fact that your his wife, admitting the reality of the situation on your problem just might be too anxiety provoking. It really sucks how lacking in understanding family can be.

    You not having health insurance could possibly be part of the problem as well.
  5. argentina1908

    argentina1908 Member

    same here. my husband has aspergers. only thinks about himself. so when i talk about how i am feeling, he turns it back onto himself and wants to talk about how he should be the one to "check out".

    total eclipse is right. you need to go to hospital and so do I.