I would like to know

Discussion in 'Grief and Bereavement' started by SaxItUp, Mar 27, 2008.

  1. SaxItUp

    SaxItUp Guest

    I would like to know.

    Why it is

    that everyone is always saying "sorry"

    "I am so sorry for your loss"

    "Aww, hunni, i'm sorry"

    and the ever popular,

    "I'm sorry"

    But why?

    Why are you sorry?











    And why is no one doing anything?



    xoxo
     
  2. Hanging by a thread

    Hanging by a thread Well-Known Member

    I think that ppl r saying sorry hun because they dont know what to do, they r saying "sorry" that they dont know what to do or say to make it better. They r also sorry for ur loss and that they know how bad that u must be feeling.
    Hope ur alright x need to vent?
    x x x
     
  3. Casey.

    Casey. Well-Known Member

    (This is SaxItUp, that one got deleted)


    I guess. It just bothers me, that no one really ever DOES anything.
     
  4. Hanging by a thread

    Hanging by a thread Well-Known Member

    but have u told ppl what they can do to help? Cause i wudnt know how to help u x x
     
  5. famous.last.words

    famous.last.words Forum Buddy

    But what can people do hun?

    People say sorry because its all they have. They feel horrible for you and they want to make the pain go away, but they cant. Trust me, ive tried.
     
  6. JBird

    JBird Well-Known Member

    Maybe the question is what do YOU expect people to do?

    Would you rather they say "Oh damn, if only i did this today, i might have been able to save them" or the people on SF that don't know you or the deceased in person "oh well...another bites the dust"

    The only thing people can say in a situation like that is to apologise for the pain they are feeling and to let them know they have someone if need be.

    Be greatful that you are getting a response, they could very easily ignore you and pretend nothing happened.