I became friends with a guy last fall through a friend of a friend, and at the beginning of this semester I managed to get his number and we started hanging out some. He's an EXTREMELY shy and reserved guy, so I didn't expect him to text very much (which he didn't, at all)...but he invited me out to party or hang out with his friends really frequently, at least once or twice a week. And when I went, I was usually the only girl there, so it's not like this was common. Well, I developed a little thing for him over time, and decided to be ballsy and tell him. He came over so we could talk and he explained that he just wanted to stay friends for now (an answer that was sort of confusing anyway)...but it seems like after that he was even a bit more distant. After that incident, I hung out with he and his friends maybe 2 more times and then, literally overnight, he started ignoring me. And I mean, he left me a nice friendly voicemail on a Wednesday night, and by the next day just started ignoring my texts. I sent him 5 texts over the span of 2 weeks before I gave up......and I've never heard from him again since. I've told this to all my friends, and even my mom, and no one can make sense of it. Can you? I mean...he didn't hate me, so it doesn't make much sense. I think I just freaked him out and he probably didn't know what to do, so he ignored me....and now he's embarrassed. That or he's just a dick. It's really frustrating though because he has never given me any inclination that he disliked me in any way....especially not as a friend.