Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by Lonely101, Dec 10, 2009.
in the next year because i dont think ill be able to wait much longer
Meet someone for a relationship?
Are you coping with your depression or other issues, because (and I hate to be on a downer but...) meeting someone when you're still not well could be extremely destructive, I can tell you this first hand.
Instead I am now trying to build friendships, close friendships where I feel cared for, appreciated, wanted and loved, but most importantly where I can offer those things in return, because they are a lot healthier than being dependent on a spouse, who is more likely to leave when the going gets tough.
Are you sure you don't want to try that first?
Build up your self esteem - you are going to need it to be in a successful relationship of any standard.
Agreed, I'd encourage this. Very good and mature point, Linds.