Id like to meet someone seriously

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by Lonely101, Dec 10, 2009.

  1. Lonely101

    Lonely101 Well-Known Member

    in the next year because i dont think ill be able to wait much longer
  2. Aurora Gory Alice

    Aurora Gory Alice Well-Known Member

    Meet someone for a relationship?

    Are you coping with your depression or other issues, because (and I hate to be on a downer but...) meeting someone when you're still not well could be extremely destructive, I can tell you this first hand.

    Instead I am now trying to build friendships, close friendships where I feel cared for, appreciated, wanted and loved, but most importantly where I can offer those things in return, because they are a lot healthier than being dependent on a spouse, who is more likely to leave when the going gets tough.
    Are you sure you don't want to try that first?

    Build up your self esteem - you are going to need it to be in a successful relationship of any standard.
  3. Rayne

    Rayne Well-Known Member

    Agreed, I'd encourage this. Very good and mature point, Linds.