What the Hell is my problem? I try so hard to help. Even if it's just a simple line or a few heart felt words. But the more I try, the more it seems, people turn on me. They came asking for the help, and I only tried to be there. But then when they find themselves down or hurt, they turn on me. Well it's a two sided blade my friends. It hurts me too. The unkind words, the silence. Telling me who or what I am. If you dont want my help that's fine but please dont use me. I've been a pawn for way too many years. And you know what? It still hurts!!!! Maybe I should take the advice of a member here and get a real life, and shit or get off the pot! But this is my life . I accept all the thoughts and urges. But I cant accept the hurt from the people I call friends!
Idiot Again!!!
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Um, I am, resistance. This thread is directed at a few members here. I'm sorry, I dont mean to come of as some high and mighty. But the last couple of days well, I've had my share of just outright rude and boorish treatment from a few members. Members that I thought of as friends. But because they are hurt they decide it's okay to curse at me and insult me, and tell me I'm not what I think I am. I'm hurting too but I sat there and took the shit because they were hurting. But now I cant shake the things that were said. It came at a very bad time, as I'm really questioning myself these days. I just wish people would think before they speak. Especially here!!!!
I agree that sometimes people speak without thinking and they can be very hurtful. Being in a bad frame of mind does not excuse this, but that is what is most often used as the defense. i am sorry you have been treated in this manner. We don't have a chance to speak often, but i am always willing to listen. Please take care. you are a wonderful person. :hug:
I think its very stupid of people to even think of being hurtful to you. We should all make an effort to be nice to each other here all the time because the fact of the matter is half of the people here are depressed because of the cruelty from others in the outside world, and if people are being cruel to each other here for no reason, how is that gonna solve anything?
Some people just need to see and think about what their doing on this website, as their making problems here aswell as having to cope with the problems in real life. I think people just need to start being a little more considerate of that.
Some people just need to see and think about what their doing on this website, as their making problems here aswell as having to cope with the problems in real life. I think people just need to start being a little more considerate of that.
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