idk.. confusion major

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by innocencexisxlove, Jul 5, 2008.

  1. innocencexisxlove

    innocencexisxlove Well-Known Member

    SO like, my friend came out to me as being bi.

    I am so happy for her. And I really don't mind it...

    Just I feel I am too. But like, I'm afraid if I come out now,
    People will think I'm trying to be like her, you know??

    I thought I was a lesbian in 6th grade.. but I know I'm not,
    Cause I love looking at gorgeous guy bods.

    But the girls look really good too...
    And I don't say it as in, "O.M.G. Becky! You look uber cute!!"

    idk.. any advice??
  2. Aissela

    Aissela Well-Known Member

    the way i see it you have two options hun:
    if you're afraid people might think you're trying to be like her, give it a while before you come out with it too.
    or if you can't hold it in anymore, come out with it and if they do think you're trying to be like her maybe you can tell them that she gave you the courage to come out too?
    either way, don't feel the need to rush anything :hug:
  3. innocencexisxlove

    innocencexisxlove Well-Known Member

    thanks Alessia :hug:
  4. janie

    janie Well-Known Member

    or maybe u need to look at more hawt guys

    i'd start with dashboard confessional

    ...mmm chris carraba~ <3 lol
  5. Epical Taylz

    Epical Taylz Well-Known Member

    haha chris carraba is a hottie fer sure :]

    BTW: im the bi friend that shes talking about :) thank you

    Rachii Baby, i didnt tell everyone that im a Bisexual
    I only told Dom, Allie, Kurtis, You, Jason, Max, and i think Stephen..
    and Jake..

    but you dont have to tell those people, and if word gets out that im
    bi then so be it. Regina will be public enemy #1.

    but enough about me
    If you do decide to tell those people and they come telling me
    about it and how they think that youre "stealing the limelight"
    then hell, ill tell them that you told me this before and that
    you didnt wanna make it seem like it was only cause you wanted
    to be like me.

    I mean I know that ive been a bisexual since like 5th grade
    cause i liked looking down girl's shirts :X
    but i mean hell you do what you want, you know ill be behind
    you 1489072490% of the way baby :} <3
  6. innocencexisxlove

    innocencexisxlove Well-Known Member