... I could find myself being under moderation for posting. This is due to some of the attitudes that are around the forum and the chat. Whilst I know I am not perfect nor do I know everything, I find it rather remarkable that when I am questioned or disputed for my opinion, although sometimes it could be better held in, there are a few who do agree that I don't go too far. I even find that I have to get my posts checked from time to time. There are a few things I really am itching to say, just to get them off my chest, but is this the right place where the respective users can see it? I'm not sure. When people make mistakes, and as humans we all do at some point, we're encouraged to learn from them. How can we learn if those mistakes are packaged in excuses to go ahead with taking our own life? It's a cheap shot when it's something as common as a broken heart, or a car crash that could have been prevented by not driving while drunk (this is two examples). Is it right that the broken heart when caused by the person wanting to end it all sounds like its seeking attention? If they can't have what they want they'd take an easy route out instead of facing reality that they caused it and what they feel inside could have been prevented with honesty. Is it right to whinge and moan about loneliness and blaming conditions for it (which I think is a load of nonsense because for a lot of things over the years to do with lonely, not invited out by so-called friends, or not going out I understand, i have experienced, and yet I have no 'labels' of specific conditions.) It's ok to have a grumble and a groan. If you're prepared to put in effort and accept things aren't always going to be exactly as you want them, then you might get further forwards. If you're not prepared to change, and open your mind to different possible perspectives, that may or may not work (only trying them would answer that), then what exactly is the point of being on a site that is pro-life? Why seek medical answers from peer-to-peer non-pros? We are all human, we all have issues. Many fight on because they find a way to. Our worst enemy is ourselves, not anyone else.