I'm a 21-year-old jewish virgin geek

[lds1986]

i'll never have any good friends or a girlfriend i think im just going to kill myself i dont think anything will ever change

 

[Freddy]

(I know I sound hypocritical for advising this but I will anyways.)

Dont do anything rash. Go talk to someone. Get a referal from a doctor you can trust. It doesnt have to be your family's doctor. If you see a therapist just remember your therapist cant tell your parents due to patient confidentiality laws.
btw There are alot of 21 year olds without girlfriends. Its quite normal.

 

[Sil]

yep. even older without girlfriend

 

[theleastofthese]

PLease don't do anything rash. Situations and circumstances can change at any minute, even tho it may seem otherwise. Please don't hurt yourself over your social situation. Things can get better, sometimes it just takes a while.

least

 

[ProzacDeathWish]

I was a late-bloomer ( I suffer from severe anxiety disorders ) and my dating experiences were very much behind schedule, so to speak. If you will investigate this forum you will find others who have similar experiences as you.

I don't want to annoy you by sounding simplistic but theoretically 21 year old Jewish virgins come in both sexes and it is possible that your romantic counter-part is simply waiting to be discovered by you.

 

[zen14]

Ill do one better. Dont make the same mistake I did. You might think its "nerdy" to be a virgin but let me tell you something. Go ahead and do the first bitch you see because your goofy ass friends mock you for not "getting any", and you'll regret caving the rest of your life.

Heres another point to consider. Those "friends" are 99% of the time lying sacks of shit who havent gotten any either.

I made it a point to do every chick that smiled at me when I was in my teens and not a day goes by that I dont regret cheapining myself like that.

 

[zen14]

ROTFLMFAO

There ya go, homie.:biggrin:

 

[Azul]

zen14 wrote:
I made it a point to do every chick that smiled at me when I was in my teens and not a day goes by that I dont regret cheapining myself like that.


Yes, it must be hell, I can imagine.

 

[zen14]

LOL ok that was funny I admit.

Seriously though, its not all that. Expecially if you were raised strict catholic.

 

[Vitreledonellidae]

@ zen14 : lol :laugh:, tho lds1986 watch out with this :unsure:

@ azul : Nice sarcasm :dry:

@ lds1986 : There more people like you, from both sexes, everywhere on this fucking world. You shouldnt feel bad about it. First of all its nothing to be ashamed off. Ok there are these ass friends who might make fun of it. But I wouldnt give a shit about it, like much more people. I dont know a thing about you, but maybe try to sociolise more. I'm sure you will find friends and a girlfriend :hug:

 

[possessednomad]

Sex and relationships (romantic ones i mean) arent everything. but i know how it feels when it feels as though they are.

things will pick up for you - like people have said there are plenty of girls that are late bloomers, too.

 

[Issac]

buddy, believe yourself...actually you have a lot of way to improve the situation, such as attending social interaction, making more friends etc...it's helpful for you to make yourself optimistic, play your role well, girls will come to you....you are the best girl-hunter, come on...don't because such small thing wanna kill yourself...

 

[Azul]

@zen14: I was raised a catholic as well, somehow the sexual guilt thing never quite got to me. But then I didn't get laid very much.