im a pear :(

Discussion in 'Self Care and Healthy Lifestyles' started by flowerpot, Dec 13, 2007.

  1. flowerpot

    flowerpot Well-Known Member

    honestly, imagine a pear with hair.. i hate my body.. i cant wear anything without looking absoultely rediculous.. and i want to go out this weekend! i dont know what to do.. im just a big blob :(
  2. PontyCruizer

    PontyCruizer Well-Known Member

    awww - ive heard wearing black helps
  3. flowerpot

    flowerpot Well-Known Member

    i tried but it still looks kind of bad.. i wanted to wear some black skinny jeans but.. i just look pear-ish :( i dont know what to do.. or what to wear
  4. incombustible2000

    incombustible2000 Well-Known Member

    well, gotta love the booty
  5. RySp123

    RySp123 Guest

    see if you can wear something that will attrack others' attention away from your curves.

    sharp round your neck, hair style or something on your head.... put makeup and make your eyes or lips attractive...... ? just some ideas

    it is not the body that makes the person and when curves are not to our liking, others will feel our unhappiness and react to it looking at what might be what it is that bothers us so keep their attention elsewhere is what best work

    strong makeup or make up in a ay that eyes are all they see and want to loose themselves into or your lips so that all they will think is ..... i'd like to kiss thos lips lol
  6. flowerpot

    flowerpot Well-Known Member

    thanks guys :hug: i guess ill just be a pear for eternity.. oh well :(
  7. ophelia28

    ophelia28 Well-Known Member

    wear the skinny jeans with a top that adds more volume maybe try one that also ties around your back so it shows of your skinnest part also if you wear plain colours on the bits you want to hide and patterned on the bits you dont mind that might help you hope this helps
  8. KohlRimmed

    KohlRimmed Well-Known Member

    i'm actually what they'd call a pear shaped woman, (i mean everything is in my bum and legs) and i've had to cope with that for a long time :) but it's getting easier, a sensible diet does help (most of junk food goes you-know-where), and if you can, access to an exercise bike (i just have a cheap one, but it works) does do the trick to an extent :)

    unfortunately for us curvy women, there's no radical, dramatic cure :(
    but apparantly, some men love them, so *shrugs*
  9. SadDude87

    SadDude87 Well-Known Member

    For what its worth I think the pear shape is sexy. If you think that your too big in general, you can always exercise. nice wide hips with a small midsection is a great shape for a woman ...
  10. nagisa

    nagisa Staff Alumni

  11. Canti

    Canti Guest

    Pear shaped people are cute!
  12. dazzle11215

    dazzle11215 Staff Alumni

    hooray for pears! i'm more pumpkin shaped myself....

    what did you end up wearing?
  13. Ruby

    Ruby Well-Known Member

    Consider yourself lucky that you're not an apple..

    Oh, avoid skinny jeans. They shouldn't be made in big sizes.
  14. Right U R Ken

    Right U R Ken Well-Known Member

    I'm a banana!!! Well I wish I was, bananas have all the fun.