I'm in a mess. I have made a massive mistake and some people might think I deserve whats coming. Basically I've been married for just over 2 years and been with my partner for 9 years in total. I committed adultery with a lady from my work who also happens to be married. There are feelings between me and this other woman whether it is love or lust, who knows but we were both prepared to leave our partners. We tried to talk each other out of how we were feeling before anything happened, but we couldn't control our feelings and obviously things happened. This ladies husband obviously found out, however he is not the type to let this lie down, he's 18 stone steroid user so his head can be all over the place. He has threatened what he wants to do to me, and made it clear I have to stay away from his wife. Then there is my wife who is absolutely devastated, and in pieces. The problems I face now is I think I love this other woman, I don't think anyone could love me as much as my wife does, my life is in danger by the phsyco husband, my career could be over as the husband keeps turning up at work and has told me to stay away. I just can't see a happy ending. Part of me says I want to make a go of it with this woman, but not sure how possible that will be without my life being in a danger and made a misery of. Then there is my wife who is struggling to come to terms with this. I don't think anyone could love me the way she does, but I don't think I love her? It would't be fair to just go back and be with someone your not sure you can love, that would be holding her back. Then would she ever be able to trust me again. I've never been in a situation like this but I can't see a happy ending whatever route I take, and at the moment I can't even think straight what I want, as I'm always looking over my shoulder and living my life in fear. I do realise this is my own fault, and some people won't have any sympathy. But I can't see a happy ending and that is why I could do everybody a favour and put an end to my own life!