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You are in a mess. Are you a minor? Is he a minor? The answers to these questions will have a lot to do with whether your trouble is little or big. I would think that if the father knew you had a nude picture of his son, who would be in the same trouble as you (if you are the same age) then he wouldn't do anything.
NEVER send a naked photo of yourself to anyone!
NEVER send one to someone on the internet!!!
If you have not met someone and need a naked photo - well each to their own but I find it bizarre that this happens.
As for laws - some nations CAN penalise young people for this - not everyone is the West with its anything goes laws.
In some nations - -well - you'd be killed for it.
Certainly jailed (Try the Saudis with the special brand of hypocrisy)
But law aside - it is silly to do this.
What happens of you fall out and he sends the photo around?
Happens all the time - boys compete to get a girl to send a photo.
A father looking at a phone - well there are privacy issues - but got to say - what if the guy was a lot older? That happens also. So dad was maybe being protective but - I agree that spying on the phone was wrong. I know a mum who found some older guy in his 30s after her 14 yr old. An internet romance! Lets see you naked before we go on a date. If we go on a date. People collect these photos also - they appear on websites of course. What for? Something not very romantic - when you picture the process.
Would you want to be ogled by a myriad of sickos?
Anyhow in future send a photo of yourself on a night out or something.
If you get married one day - and he needs a naked photo or two - go for it.
I'd never agree to any request like that myself - but thankfully- nobody does so there is no awkward PM conveying my decline in polite terms and warning of the dangers of doing it in the first place.
I don't think most 16 yr olds can say whether the love of their life right now will be in 12 weeks - and if he is going to destroy the photos when you break up or show them to other boys - which happens a lot and causes a LOT of grief when its used as a bullying tool - a put down.
No women never regretted not sending naked photos
But many do regret sending them.
Its not something anyone actually NEEDS as part of a new relationship.
Don't ever be pressured into this.
Even if you feel like its a good idea in the heat of the moment - think long and hard about what could happen with the photos.
I think a man ought to hold that vision in his memories - not on the phone or laptop and so on.
IF this young man is your boyfriend - that's not too bad - but if you met him on the internet and have not even met him - even if you 'think' you know him - that is unwise - but you learn the lesson and thankfully apart from some embarrassment - its not an issue.
Live and learn.
Anyone else wants to see you in the flesh send a photo of you as a baby.
good luck!
Regards
NEVER send one to someone on the internet!!!
If you have not met someone and need a naked photo - well each to their own but I find it bizarre that this happens.
As for laws - some nations CAN penalise young people for this - not everyone is the West with its anything goes laws.
In some nations - -well - you'd be killed for it.
Certainly jailed (Try the Saudis with the special brand of hypocrisy)
But law aside - it is silly to do this.
What happens of you fall out and he sends the photo around?
Happens all the time - boys compete to get a girl to send a photo.
A father looking at a phone - well there are privacy issues - but got to say - what if the guy was a lot older? That happens also. So dad was maybe being protective but - I agree that spying on the phone was wrong. I know a mum who found some older guy in his 30s after her 14 yr old. An internet romance! Lets see you naked before we go on a date. If we go on a date. People collect these photos also - they appear on websites of course. What for? Something not very romantic - when you picture the process.
Would you want to be ogled by a myriad of sickos?
Anyhow in future send a photo of yourself on a night out or something.
If you get married one day - and he needs a naked photo or two - go for it.
I'd never agree to any request like that myself - but thankfully- nobody does so there is no awkward PM conveying my decline in polite terms and warning of the dangers of doing it in the first place.
I don't think most 16 yr olds can say whether the love of their life right now will be in 12 weeks - and if he is going to destroy the photos when you break up or show them to other boys - which happens a lot and causes a LOT of grief when its used as a bullying tool - a put down.
No women never regretted not sending naked photos
But many do regret sending them.
Its not something anyone actually NEEDS as part of a new relationship.
Don't ever be pressured into this.
Even if you feel like its a good idea in the heat of the moment - think long and hard about what could happen with the photos.
I think a man ought to hold that vision in his memories - not on the phone or laptop and so on.
IF this young man is your boyfriend - that's not too bad - but if you met him on the internet and have not even met him - even if you 'think' you know him - that is unwise - but you learn the lesson and thankfully apart from some embarrassment - its not an issue.
Live and learn.
Anyone else wants to see you in the flesh send a photo of you as a baby.
good luck!
Regards
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