I'm not sure that they would agree, but when I video chat with them, I feel like I'm not as smart, funny, talented, good looking, or interesting as any of them. I even hate the sound of my own voice. They are people in their 20s and 30s who live around the US and in other countries. We are traditional Catholics and people of our religion are so split up--since we are not mainline Catholics--that it is hard to meet people of the same religion without using the Internet. Yet despite this I've been avoiding our nightly video conferences over the Internet because they all seem better than me. They seem to accept me and welcome me when I log in, but I feel like they just tolerate me to be nice. I don't post on SF often, but you can easily see my posts for my background.