Been a while since I last posted on here but my situation with friends hasn't changed in the slightest. I received a text from a girl I knew from college and she basically referred to my ongoing absence on facebook as premeditated because nobody would care if I was ignoring them or if I was looking for somebody to answer my silent prayer. She then invited me to her 21st birthday party but made it clearly so that I should bring my friends along but the truth in that is she fancies my mate and I've so far refused to do her dirty work. My other friends on the otherhand have been more hesitant in getting in touch to see if I'm ok or not. From what I've seen online my so called best friend is making out that I'm ignoring him but since confronting him over why he told everybody I was boring and that I wasn't to hang around with him and everybody else on their nights out anymore he has been making out so I'm the bad guy and making me look like the villian. He doesn't understand me as much as I thought or wished he did because as many of you know I'm fine to be the life of a party but after that party ends I just want to be the real grumpy me but no they insist I must be happy 24/7 and I've had enough.