I'm pissed and overwhelmed

Discussion in 'Help Me! I Need to Talk to Someone.' started by sadhart, Jul 17, 2012.

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  1. sadhart

    sadhart Well-Known Member

    I live with my aunt, and my mother is coming to visit. I don't like this as I am sick of my mother's passive aggressive hypocritical bullshit. I have no options, and while I don't want to get into everything (mainly because it seems like my posts are suddenly not important to answer, yes, i know im being selfish in saying that) but i am tired of all fault being dumped on me.

    i swear to God I will take my life before i keep dealing with this one died bullshit.
  2. windlepoons

    windlepoons Well-Known Member

    Passive aggression is hard to deal with.
    Is just avoiding her as much as possible an option?
  3. sadhart

    sadhart Well-Known Member

    Not really...it doesn't matter anyway, there's too many things not going right in my life and I'm sick of hurting in vain like this.
  4. windlepoons

    windlepoons Well-Known Member

    I wonder if there is a place where you can get specific help with dealing with passive aggression? I know its fairly common so others must struggle with it as well.
  5. sadhart

    sadhart Well-Known Member

    Probably not. Besides, i have to deal with the fact that I can "never change" someone else, especially someone like my mother. What pisses me off though how she and others always tries to change me, in a mostly self serving way.
  6. Wastingecho

    Wastingecho Well-Known Member

    had my fill of that behavior from my mother and her companion a couple of years ago

    only way to avoid it was to cut them both off completely - not the best solution but the only one that let me stay sane
  7. Sea Sparkles

    Sea Sparkles Well-Known Member

    Sorry to hear they over-whelm you. I know that feeling. Do you think if things get to much when she comes to visit you could go for a walk? Might ease your mind, go for a bit of a jog. Take yourself away from the stressful situation. I know it might be hard, but give her a chance, and once she starts, step away from the situation, so it does not become overwhelming.

    Take care-
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