im sick of me-i should be grateful

Discussion in 'I Have a Question...' started by lavendR23, Nov 13, 2008.

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  1. lavendR23

    lavendR23 Active Member

    just like the title of this thread.
    I should be grateful. people are losing their jobs, houses etc
    but i cant be happy.
    i have a job- but its unrewarding and i cant stand the people there.
    i have a place to live-but because of $ its with my parents
    i have a car- but i have to pay to feed it.
    i have nice things-but i feel like they are holding me in place
    i dont have to deal with idiot boyfriends-but im lonely

    i feel like im wasting my life.
    i feel like the world wasted my life.

    im sick of not knowing what to do about it.

    get a new job-tried not working
    get a place by myself-cant afford it
    find a guy-more trouble than they are worth and never love me anyway

    sick of it
     
  2. Oak

    Oak Senior Member & Antiquities Friend

    an old addage says to count your blessings. this is your case hun.
    as far as job is concerned just keep looking till you find something that suits you, it wont come over night nor fall in you hands. Once you do find one, put money aside and get your own place, even sharing it with someone to cut the cost in half, you'lll be able to move out if its bothering you so much.
    for the guy thing, you view them all as evil which is far from the truth. got to be patient and be honest with yourself and not allow certain things about the partner that will be harming you mentally or psichologically. If you are attentive the guy that will steal your heart will find it as a blessing and act accordingly. all is up to us in this field. if you are realistic in what you seek then the better. i wish you the best of luck but change glasses hun, you see everything through dark glasses wich makes you focus on the negativity of all.

    granny
     
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