perhaps this isn't the right place to post this. it's hard to put into writing how i feel. i'm fourteen and began self harming half a year ago. it came and went, but a couple months ago i had a particularly bad episode of depression; i was having almost daily suicidal thoughts and was self harming frequently. a teacher found out through a friend and now i see a school counsellor weekly. this is the story i tell other people, but it's not the story i'm going to tell here.
this is something i've never told anyone else. it's something that's pretty common in teenage years, please don't roll your eyes! i have a crush on a teacher right now. he always stares at me and makes an effort to see me. this has been happening for a year. he's quite young, many people in my all girls school find him attractive. my friend doesn't know i like him but she likes him as well. lately, she's been gushing about him all the time. he's been ignoring me recently; he never looks at me, but puts himself in a position where i can stare at him. this is completely different to what happened before. today i saw him staring at her, this hasn't been the first time. i know i'm not the only girl he does this to, but seeing it happen to her was so painful.
i've always had low self esteem; the smallest thing can make me feel worthless and unworthy of living. my mum has contributed to this. i don't really like my body, i've always been underweight and i'm at the age now where people around me are starting to get curves. but i digress; today i felt so low and worthless i felt like self harming in school. i'm being crushed by self doubt. i cut yesterday. is it ever going to stop?
sorry about the length of this. please give me some advice about him; i know we can never be together and nothing will ever happen. but when he looks at me he makes me feel beautiful, like i could do anything. without him, i feel empty, ugly, worthless, uninteresting, like a terrible person.
this is something i've never told anyone else. it's something that's pretty common in teenage years, please don't roll your eyes! i have a crush on a teacher right now. he always stares at me and makes an effort to see me. this has been happening for a year. he's quite young, many people in my all girls school find him attractive. my friend doesn't know i like him but she likes him as well. lately, she's been gushing about him all the time. he's been ignoring me recently; he never looks at me, but puts himself in a position where i can stare at him. this is completely different to what happened before. today i saw him staring at her, this hasn't been the first time. i know i'm not the only girl he does this to, but seeing it happen to her was so painful.
i've always had low self esteem; the smallest thing can make me feel worthless and unworthy of living. my mum has contributed to this. i don't really like my body, i've always been underweight and i'm at the age now where people around me are starting to get curves. but i digress; today i felt so low and worthless i felt like self harming in school. i'm being crushed by self doubt. i cut yesterday. is it ever going to stop?
sorry about the length of this. please give me some advice about him; i know we can never be together and nothing will ever happen. but when he looks at me he makes me feel beautiful, like i could do anything. without him, i feel empty, ugly, worthless, uninteresting, like a terrible person.