Hi all. Um i was reading some posts and it got me to thinking. This is another incident (not the one i kinda posted about on the abuse threads) I can remember when i was younger (say 7 or 8 cause it was before my sister was born), i remember being in bed and at the bottom of my bed there was a closet in the wall. and i just remember someone "being there" and i can hear "its okay, i used to do this to ur mum". Now i dont know if its a dream or real. BUT, me and my mum were talking the other day and she mentioned my nans ex husband (her stepdad) as she'd bumped into him, so i said "how come we dont see him anymore" (as we were brought up knowing him as grandpa until he left when i was 10/11) anyway she said that he was a pervert and tried touching her when she was younger. Now it makes me think that maybe, do u think he abused her and me? it worries me that, that wasnt a dream and it was real. I didnt mention anything to her because i dont know. plus i dont know what to say or how to say it. Do i just forget about this or what? im so confused.