I'm worried they'll split...

[Lonely Shadow]

It looks like two of my best friends might split up,and I'm so worried...I've never been in a situation where I've been friends with both parts of a couple equally before,and if they split I don't know how I'll deal with them.Each one's always telling me how much they worry about the other one.I can understand one half's side of things as I've been there myself,but I love them both equally and I don't think I'll be able to help them both if they split,I won't be able to deal with it,I know I won't.The stress will be far too much.I feel like such a bad friend for even thinking that

 

[gentlelady]

It depends on how serious the split is. There are times when they still remain friends. If they are expressing concern over each other this may be the case. If not, you may have to spend time with them separately. If they start to speak of the other one simply tell them you will not discuss that person with them as you are still friends with them both. If they are true friends, they will respect your wishes.