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just_me_again

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Recently, things have been going pretty okay. It turns out I'll get to graduate in a year and then will be able to move and find a job. The problem is, my boyfriend doesn't want to talk about it. I try to bring things up casually, but he has no interest in discussing or saving for the future. I'm worried that my graduation date will also be our expiration date. I really don't want that for us. I love him and he's improved my quality of life so much but what if we are supposed to go in different directions?
 

Petal

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I wonder if maybe he thinks that once you graduate, you'll be the one that wants to move on from him?
This was my initial thought too. I think you should have a heart to heart with him and let him know what's bothering you. Your life is too precious to throw away over this. You could even think a lot differently a year down the line :) Best wishes x
 

just_me_again

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I talked to him. We've said we've loved each other multiple times for the past few months and he said that he was scared that I would decide to leave him or that I'd outgrow him. We've made plans to move together after we graduate so that he can find a new job/go to a school with the major he wants and I can find a job in my field and possibly further my education. I guess talking things out is the best way to do things.
 

sassy123

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Hugs glad talking has helped good luck with your move I hope it all works out.
 

Petal

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Yay for a good result, glad things worked out for you, happy for you, now no more worrying darling x
 
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