Honestly I can see why my husband was so demented with the family he has. They are every bit as abusive as he is. What really gets me however is how after all those years he went on about the way his Dad treated him he suddenly defends it because he knows he's done the same thing to me. His Mom thinks he's this perfect person which is sad in itself. Heck she molested him once so I know she's sick not to mention his Dad abused her. But she in insane to think it's different when her son abuses someone else. The only good thing about it is he's under their control again and he deserves every bit of it for what he did to me. I am honestly glad to be away from that whole sick family. I do not miss any of them. I am grieving my relationship loss but it will pass and it's a lot better than putting up with abuse the rest of my life. it came close to death on several occasions as it is and I know it would have ended up so. I hope the whole lot of them suffer immensely for what they have done. This is a vent so please let it be that.