Many years ago I was some what contrived into attending a safe house with a couple of friends whom I no longer speak to for no reason connected to this. Some boys on their road befriended our group for a while and one day I didn't go out and the boys locked my two girl mates in a room using a large wardrobe. I wasn't told the whole story but I was dragged along with them and their parents for moral support but for some reason they no longer treat me as a friend and we've not been close for the best part of 7 years despite attending school together etc. I fell out with them over something trivial at the time but I don't understand why they held a grudge, it took them two years to speak to me again and even then I spent that time walking around school having to blank them in class etc. They forever moaned about their other friends but have never treated them badly like they have to me. I doubt they would have gone along with them had they been asked either. I'm too nice for my own good and I guess the purpose of this thread is to ask why do nice men/boys get treated like junk? I just want people to stop using me and to treat me nice.