Theres a long story behind all this but to keep it short, things have been a nightmare since my parents seperation. As a side career of sorts, I exercise & show horses. A few months back I took on my moms horse for training...for free. However on & off shes been having these MAJOR blowouts about how I ruined her life, how she wants me off the horse, & a whole crap-load of not sooo friendly stuff. Everytime she does that she claims she doesnt think we should talk or see eachother & so on. However usually 2 days after she'll call me like nothing happened. Ask me to work her horse, go to lunch whatever. She always plays vicitim & it drives me INSANE. It has had HUGE mental/emotional, & physical effects on me. Im drained, my marks are on the line, Im not sleeping & I feel caught in the middle. My dad bounces back & forth on his feelings towards this. He says in her fragile condition I should just forgive her & move on. But it happens at least twice a month & Im TIRED of it.