inappropriate or not?

Discussion in 'I Have a Question...' started by ?????????????, May 11, 2009.

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  1. i spilt milkshake down my trousers my dad jumped up and got a spoon to clear it up it was at my crotch for a good ten minutes...
  2. shades

    shades Staff Alumni

    Have there been any other similar incidents? Anything that would make you think something other than an attempt at cleaning up the mess was going on?

    Are you male or female? Might make a difference in the minds of some. Anytime someting like that happened when I was that age, I was told to quickly change my clothes and get them in the washing machine.
  3. im female and theres some doubt whether i was abused when i was younger as i dont remember much and my bros claim they were and my sister seem to agree somewhat
  4. WildCherry

    WildCherry Staff Member ADMIN

    Personally, I think what he did was inappropriate. Last week, my 7-year-old cousin dropped an entire ice cream cone all over herself, and it took me less than a minute to get the majority of the ice cream off her clothes before I told her to go, change clothes, and bring her old ones out so I could wash them.

    Is there an adult you trust that you can tell?
  5. Aurora Gory Alice

    Aurora Gory Alice Well-Known Member

    Your brothers claim they were abused when they were younger by your Dad and your sister agrees that this happened, yes?

    Is this something that is well known throughout your family or something they have told you in confidence but your Dad (or Mum) doesn't know about what they have said?

    Because I am guessing if it was something well known and talked about, your Dad would be a lot more careful about doing it to another child.

    May I ask how old you are as well by the way? - Just as in, are you the youngest, are you all adults, and when did the abuse take place/at what age(s)?
  6. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    I think yes, maybe:unsure: What has been done about your brother and sister's claims?
  7. Perfect Melancholy

    Perfect Melancholy SF Friend

    Anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or ask questions like this is not right, the key is you have to let someone know trust me however hard that seems. you need to stop it now, they need to know that even if it was something innocent which to be frank i doubt it shouldnt happen again.
  8. tls5669

    tls5669 Active Member

    Yes it was inappropriate.
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