so i'm just seeking some opinions here......my abusive ex, will not leave me alone. he shows up at my place without warning, calls/texts all the time, emails several times a day, etc. i have been doing a pretty good job of completely ignoring him, but he's wearing me down. he swears up and down that he has changed and that i'm the one in the wrong for not giving him another chance. i feel so guilty sometimes. he's sort of right, maybe i am just assuming that he can't change and he actually has.... i guess what i'm wanting to know is....do any of you think that it's possible for an abuser to change (especially since it's only been 3 months since i moved out)? anyone have a similar situation?