Thats what I asked my counsellor with regards to me saying that no one seems to take notice of me or include me in things unless they want something from me. For example I will reply to text from a friend/colleague 9/10 within a reasonable amount of time. Yet the other way round they wont bother replying at all most of the time. And then when I see them have some lame excuse that they were doing something or had no reception. Which I know is rubbish as they know they were chatting to mutual friends/collegues.:frown: Also I'm always arranging things yet if I leave them to do it they wont bother or wont invite me out or if they do its ALWAYS last minute. The problem is this seems to be EVERYONE i have ever met in my life. I could rationalise it and say i'm mixing with the wrong people but its everyone so I wonder is something wrong with me, am i defective in that I just cant get close to someone or can't evoke some sort of close emotional bond with anyone? I feel i'm just some plain person that no one will ever really cares about but be destined as the acquaintance I'm a very analytical person so try not to jump the gun so to speak but rationalise my thoughts and think am I over reacting but i'm not which is worrying. Even my counsellor admitted (reluctantly) that the people in my life have let me down. What do I do?