Self proclaimed nice guys who always bitch about how its arseholes get the girls are usually the real arseholes??? I mean over the years I've been accused many a time of being the knuckle dragging neanderthal arsehole boyfriend that is straight out of a shitty teen romantic comedy. I mean its not that I'm bothered by it as I make no bones about who I am, that I'm somewhat rough around the edges and I'm not exactly the sensitive type but that hardly makes me a jerk. But it seems interesting that a lot of guys who have accused me being this cling on to the whole I'm nice guy women should give me a chance ideal yet when these guys get into a relationship, they end up fucking it up by clingy jealous and emotionally abusive c*nts. I mean the other day one of my tutor underlings Alice told me that a friend (who is also a friend of my GF) of hers had fancied my missus and near the end of last year I was severally depressed and it sorta give me and my missus doubts about if our relationship could survive long term wise. My missus needed a shoulder to cry on and he pretty much tried to take advantage of this by telling that I was using my depression to trap her and that I was jerk bah bah bah and she should leave me for something else as I could be cheating on her. This someone else being her because Not long after he admitted to her that he had feelings for her and asked her if she would give him a chance. She turned him down and he called her a lying c*nt and she used him. Not according Alice this guy ran crying to her saying how unfair it was even though she pointed out that he tried to sabotage my relationship with my GF, pretended to be my missus's friend when in reality he wanted to just get into her pants and got all nasty at her when it all turned to custard. Yet this guy swears black and blue that he is the victim and I'm the arsehole. And I've come across plenty of girls who had similar such guys so it does make one wonder who are the real arseholes here.