is it ok to be so mad now? Please help! Here is the situation. I caught my boyfriend back in 2007 with some sort of affair. We talked about it back then and he said nothing happened and that he was feeling bad about our relationship blah blah blah. Everything was fine till now A few days ago he was about to open his emails and ask me for a glass of water (wich would make me go away from the pc sight). By the time i came back his was done with it. So i got jealouse. Our relationship is Perfectly good now. Nothing to worry about Even so, i sat right here in his pc (we live together) to watch some videos on youtube, and i found that he´s been watching porn. And i said, oh well thats not bad. And noticed he accidentally left his gmail acc. Logged in. So i went to take a peek, since i was still jealouse because of what happened the other day. You see, that email address is how i caught him back in 2007. He had emails to a friend telling how inlove was with a girl who was leaving the city and that he would never see again. but TODAY. i found a conversation with somebody i believe it is an ex girlfriend he had ( because of her name) he was telling her how he was feeling like going out, and that he was always unlucky because there was always an ex boyfriend or a current boyfriend around or chicks were ALL crazy- That a girl left him waiting for her and never showed up. THIS is nEW Stuff i havent seen before tho it is old as the other stuff i found back in 2007. He is at a job interview right now, and probably heading back home. Weve been living together over 2 years now, and dating since 2003- I need advice...should i keep everything to myself? or let it all out at him and see what happens? im afraid to crash something good, but im afraid of being with a lier! help me guys hes coming back home soon!