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Is it ok?

#1
I'm getting really ill (not covid) it's already hard to eat and walk and I'll barely be able to type soon from my energy dropping. I basically have a chronic illness that makes me pretty much bedbound and unable to look after myself for weeks and weeks at a time. My question is, me and my best friend still havent made up yet since conflict a few months ago (over something v small, but it blew up and they got angry, lashed out at me, and said they needed space before feeling like talking again), they usually care about me a lot and know when I'm ill. As we havent made up yet do you think it's ok if I were to get my family to contact them to inform them I'm ill? I dont want to seem like a pest or a guilt-tripper cause I'm not trying to pressure them to make up faster or feel sorry for me but normally they would know and if they came back when I'm still ill they wouldn't know why I cant reply. I dont expect them to send me support if they dont want to talk still, but honestly my illness is so bad I always feel like I'm gonna die and I cant stand being this ill and still being on bad terms with them. :(

Apologies if I dont reply, my muscles already hurt a lot just from typing this
 
#2
I mean at the end of the day its up to you and I could understand why you would feel that way. If I were your friend I would like to know about your illness even if we had a previous falling out.
 

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#3
It's up to you @lost_in_a_fairytale
Depends if you want them around now. Because he's allowed to wait after making you wait. If you want him around your family can text him then it's up to him. Also he knows you've been I'll before so knows you can be I'll again. Your life is about you and not him.

Sending hugs and more hugs. I hope this passes quickly for you and you're back to yourself soon...
 
#4
It's up to you @lost_in_a_fairytale
Depends if you want them around now. Because he's allowed to wait after making you wait. If you want him around your family can text him then it's up to him. Also he knows you've been I'll before so knows you can be I'll again. Your life is about you and not him.

Sending hugs and more hugs. I hope this passes quickly for you and you're back to yourself soon...
This thread isn't relevant anymore but thanks
 

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