is it okay?

Discussion in 'I Have a Question...' started by rubbish, Nov 10, 2013.

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  1. rubbish

    rubbish Member

    I can't forgive my parents and I hate them, is it okay that I didn't want to see them again? I'm 19 years old.
     
  2. NYJmpMaster

    NYJmpMaster Have a question? Message Me Staff Member Forum Owner ADMIN

    Of course it is okay - you are not obligated by birth to anything to do with family or parents. If they are a toxic situation that is you choice and certainly reasonable to decide to distance yourself. Having done so myself over 25 years ago I can promise that close familial connection is in no way required for a decent life and in some cases the only way to a good life is to sever those ties. If you want to try again in a few months or years then fie - so long as equally willing to walk away. You are an adult- it is your choice.
     
  3. Witty_Sarcasm

    Witty_Sarcasm Writer, Musician, Fun Lover, Magic Maker

    Nothing wrong with not wanting to see them again. Just because someone is related to you, doesn't mean that you have to have anything to do with them. You are better off without them in your life if they cause you pain.
     
  4. greyroses

    greyroses Well-Known Member

    Not only is that okay, but you are free to change your mind later.
     
  5. rubbish

    rubbish Member

    Thanks everyone...:thank_you: Love you all...:hugsquish:
     
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